The Dardenne Family

The Dardenne Family

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Update on Appointment Day

I know many of you are anxiosly awaiting news of our appointment at the SDA which was yesterday. Sorry, it's taken me so long to update, but our internet access was down for a while. Now we're back up and running.

I'm not really sure what to say aobut the appointment at the SDA. I think we probably experienced the same things that many other recent families have written about. We had asked for a young child, so we already knew to expect to be shown files of children with medical issues. We saw several files of young girls. Most had medical issues that we had already decided beforehand we didn't think we could handle as a family. We narrowed our selection down to two precious little girls that both had orthopedic problems and would require surgery. After speaking to our pediatrician back home whom we woke up at 4:15am home time(Thanks Dr. Byrum! We love you!), we decided not to choose a child to meet. We then asked for a second appointment and were granted another time, which is next Tuesday.

Thanks again for all your prayers and support. We'll keep you updated if anythig happens between now and then.

11 comments:

Kathy and Matt said...

I'm glad you were able to talk with your pediatrician and make a decision that felt right for your family. That's the most important thing.

Great news that you can have a second appointment next week. Since you've got a little time, try to enjoy some of the sights in Kiev. When you travel back through on your way home, it's hard to do much because you're so busy.

We'll be praying for a great appointment next week!

Tammy and Scott said...

We feel for you and understand what you are going through, having just been there. We will pray for a better second appointment. I agree with the other person in saying you should see some of the sights in Ukraine. It helps pass the time during the week. You can walk to a lot of the churches & The Rodyna Matte.
We would definitely recommend seeing St. Sophia & St Mikhayil's Monastery of the Golden Domes. (If you haven't already.) This was our favorite place in Kiev. It was a calming place & not far from Independence Square.

Best wishes & good luck at your appt.!

Amy said...

I'm so sorry that your first appointment was not as successful as you would have liked. My thoughts are with you on getting a successful 2nd appt and being able to find your child!
Enjoy Kyiv while you are there - there is so much to see!

Best wishes!
Amy

The Flying Eagle said...

We are very sorry that your first attempt did not go as you wished. Although it does not sound like this was a surprise to you, I am sure it still carries the same amount of disappointment and sadness. :-( We wish you all the best of luck at your second appt.
Monica & David

Kevin and Tammy said...

Just found your blog. Keep the faith. God has a plan. I know it is so hard to not get a referral that you are happy with, but remember children become available every day. We will keep you in our prayers. We will be traveling in August.
Tammy

junglemama said...

Sorry your first appointment didn't go as planned. Maybe you'll find your child this next appointment.

Unknown said...

praying your 2nd appointment is perfect timing, I'm remembering the blog of little Victor and how it took a few tries but he found his perfect family. take heart!

Andrea said...

Hi,
I didn't realize you would get an appt. so quickly. I hope your spirits are okay, since it didn't go as well as you wanted. thankfully your next appt. is soon. Enjoy some time together!
love,
Andrea

Amy Skrivanos said...

We will keep praying for you and checking back for updates. Hope you are able to enjoy a few days of sightseeing! We'd love to hear about that part, too!

Donna and Michael Lebsack said...

All our thoughts and prayers are with you as you head into your new appointment. May the your perfect little angel be waiting in the new files next week.

Donna and Michael Lebsack

Kent and Amy said...

We are so glad you made it safely! We've been praying daily for you! Look forward to hearing more next Tues. re your appt. Kent says"Rodney be careful what you draw for people, they might misinterpret!" Take good care of yourself and enjoy your time together!!!!